Patient

Patience... It is the word that I always say to myself and reminds me to always be cool and calm.. though there are lots of things in my mind.. but somehow it helps to control myself from doing something that I will regret later on..

It's one word that is very powerful.. "Sabar itu separuh daripada Iman".. So, never just say the word.. but use it, make it true, live with it.. it determines your well being.. Keimanan..

However, patience has its limits.. and we have to be aware of the limits.. as that may make ourselves "good" or "bad" in somebody else's mind through the impression that we gave to others.. Never deny that it has limits as we are only human.. We might not be able to control ourselves from being mad or angry at somebody.. but it is not that we are mad at them.. it is just that we disagree with what they were doing or their attitude towards something in particular.. That makes us loose our minds when we are not able to control ourselves or by being impatient..

We lost a lot of things when we are mad at other people... when we say bad things to the other party, or insulting them, using abusive words or lay a hand on them.. and it would be difficult for a person to befriend a person who is so impatient or have less patience.

Think about it.. If you are mad at someone, just refrain yourselves from doing something that you might regret later in the future.. What you need to do is pray to Allah, and tawakkal so that you can control your emotions without hurting somebody else.