Patience... It is the word that I always say to myself and reminds me to always be cool and calm.. though there are lots of things in my mind.. but somehow it helps to control myself from doing something that I will regret later on..

It's one word that is very powerful.. "Sabar itu separuh daripada Iman".. So, never just say the word.. but use it, make it true, live with it.. it determines your well being.. Keimanan..

However, patience has its limits.. and we have to be aware of the limits.. as that may make ourselves "good" or "bad" in somebody else's mind through the impression that we gave to others.. Never deny that it has limits as we are only human.. We might not be able to control ourselves from being mad or angry at somebody.. but it is not that we are mad at them.. it is just that we disagree with what they were doing or their attitude towards something in particular.. That makes us loose our minds when we are not able to control ourselves or by being impatient..

We lost a lot of things when we are mad at other people... when we say bad things to the other party, or insulting them, using abusive words or lay a hand on them.. and it would be difficult for a person to befriend a person who is so impatient or have less patience.

Think about it.. If you are mad at someone, just refrain yourselves from doing something that you might regret later in the future.. What you need to do is pray to Allah, and tawakkal so that you can control your emotions without hurting somebody else.

Something nice to read... and think about...

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say ot do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

When some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done before.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,

things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.

Your job is to accept the lesson, 

love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you or being a part of my life,

whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

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I really love this message...

If you're mad with someone, and nobody's there to fix the situation... You fix it. Maybe today, that person still wants to be your friend. And if you don't, tomorrow can be too late..

If you're in love with somebody, but that person doesn't know... tell her/him. Maybe today, that person is also in love with you. And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late.

If you really want to kiss somebody... kiss her/him.. Maybe that person wants a kiss from you, too. And if you don't kiss her/him today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you... tell her/him. Maybe that person has always loved you. And if you don't tell her/him today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you need a hug of a friend... ask her/him for it. Maybe they need it more than you do. And if you don't ask for it today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you really have friends who appreciate... tell them. Maybe they appreciate you as well. That if you don't and they leave or go far away today, tomorrow can be too late.

If you love your parents, and never had the chance to show them... do it. Maybe you have them there to show them how you feel. That if you don't and they leave today, and then tomorrow can be too late.